Concentrate on the goodness in the other, rather than the difference.

“Fresh start. Day two, socks around my ankles, way down, two Maori boys approach…”

“Surrender. That's an interesting term. We tend to see all forms of surrender as…”

“...Accept the differences, because they are superficial..Concentrate on the goo…”

“Czech Republics worst pick up line: What's a nice place like this doing around …”