When virtues are pointed out first, flaws seem less insurmountable. Autor: Judith Martin Copy Quote More from Judith Martin “Charming villains have always had a decided social advantage over well-meaning …” “It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your…” “There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered…” “The rationale that etiquette should be eschewed because it fosters inequality d…”