Your problem isn't the problem, it's your attitude about the problem.

“He was a caricature of a caricature of a loser.”

“The most haunting thing was not that he didn't love her anymore. She could have…”

“He'd pushed her. He'd scared her. He'd besieged her. He'd vowed he wouldn't, an…”

“Maybe you think you’ll be entitled to more happiness later by forgoing all of i…”