Maybe I don't want to be defined by what I do. Maybe I'd like to be defined by what I am. Author: Nicholas Sparks Copy Quote More from Nicholas Sparks “The body slows with mortal ache , yet my promise remains true at the closing of…” “What the younger generation didn't understand was that the grass was greenest w…” “You have no idea how much the last few days have meant to me," I began. "Meetin…” “You get to tour some of the historic homes and listen to ghost stories.""This i…”