They believe one becomes selfless in love because one desires the advantage of another human being, often against one's own advantage. But in return for that they want to possess the other person.

“When we have to change an opinion about any one, we charge heavily to his accou…”

“Our faith in others betrays that we would rather have faith in ourselves.”

“أن نخلّص الماضى, أن نحوّل كل "ذلك ما كان" إلى "ذلك ما أردت" ذلك فقط هو ما أسميه خ…”

“Man liebt zuletzt seine Begierde, und nicht das Begehrte.”