What you're blaming yourself for is being who you are. And that's no one's fault and nothing you can change.

“Well, thanks. It was nice of you to give me anything." The tension between them…”

“Don't screech like that. You'll wake the dead." - Jace - The Mortal Instruments…”

“I don't want to be a man," said Jace. "I want to be an angst-ridden teenager wh…”

“The angel brought you back.""Because you asked him to. You could have anything …”