you have to understand. i wasn't just thinking of me. i was thinking of her, too. Author: Lauren Oliver Copy Quote More from Lauren Oliver “Love, it kills you, both when you have it and when you don't.” “He looked at me like I was beautiful.” “They say that just before you die your whole life flashes before your eyes, but…” “Segregation has it all wrong. We should be protected from the people who will l…”