Good parents use the mistakes they did in the past when they were young to advice the children God gave to them to prevent them from repeating those mistakes again. However, bad parents always want to be seen as right and appear "angelic and saintly" as if they never had horrible youth days.

Israelmore Ayivor

Tags: honesty advice past parents integrity children god youth mistakes angels teaching mother parenting food-for-thought lessons saint angel father young training clean dirty behaviour be-honest repeat behavior parent mothers-day prevent prevention good-mother horrible good-life advise past-life angelic my-mother israelmore-ayivor fathers-day my-father advising good-father good-parents advicing bad-character bad-life bad-parents good-charcter happy-fathers-day happy-mothers-day horrible-life prevention-is-better-than-cure repeat-mistakes saintly salf-righteous teach-your-children tel-the-truth train-up-a-child unspotted youth-days



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Perfectionist parents seem to operate under the illusion that if they can just get their children to be perfect, they will be a perfect family. They put the burden of stability on the child to avoid facing the fact that they, as parents, cannot provide it. The child fails and becomes the scapegoat for family problems. Once again, the child is saddled with the blame.

Susan Forward

Tags: family blame scapegoat bad-parents



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Unhealthy families discourage individual expression. Everyone must conform to the thoughts and actions of the toxic parents. They promote fusion, a blurring of personal boundaries, a welding together of family members. On an unconscious level, it is hard for family members to know where one ends and another begins. In their efforts to be close, they often suffocate one another’s individuality.

Susan Forward

Tags: individuality family bad-parents



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