A solution to the inner war solves the outer war as well.

“Most wars between individuals are of the 'cold' rather than the 'hot' variety--…”

“As painful as it is to receive contempt from another, it is more debilitating b…”

“...when I betray myself, others' faults become immediately inflated in my heart…”

“Because if you are the mess, you can clean it. Improvement doesn't depend on ot…”