Gone is not forgotten, but our lives cannot be a memorial. This city cannot be a memorial. This city has to be a city. Our lives have to be our lives.

“Each of us has our own unit of measurement, our own relativity. Spaces between …”

“There is not one moment when that feeling of inadequate sorrow goes away. It ju…”

“At the next song switch, I hang back. I want to see this as well as be a part o…”

“I guess it's a choice we make," she said."What's a choice?" I asked.And she sai…”