I’d set out to write a book about how we learn to trust our own experience in the face of confusion, doubt, and anxiety. What I ended up with is the story of how we love each other in spite of immense limitations

“I was going to be in therapy for a long, long time. I wasn’t even a sentence ye…”

“Don’t get sucked in, Dave was always saying to me. Kind of like Helder’s contai…”

“As children, we are profoundly loyal to our parents, and to their pain: I wante…”

“I giggled and he took it very seriously and wrote everything down. I thought it…”