If someone loves you for what you can do then it's flattering, but why do you love them? If someone loves you for who you are then they have to know you, which means you have to know them.

“You don't see many shy terrorists.”

“It makes you wonder. All the brilliant things we mght have done with our lives …”

“No one should have to go back to the place where she had once been a girl.”

“...And there it went, the burden of her lifetime, taken.”