Mature love is loving, not being loved. Auteur: Irvin D. Yalom Copy Quote More from Irvin D. Yalom “To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.” “There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obst…” “Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.” “To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as full…”