People who are "in love" lose interest in other pursuits. That is why we call it "obsession. Auteur: Gary Chapman Copy Quote More from Gary Chapman “Love is the most important word in the English language--and the most confusing.” “If acts of service do not come naturally for you, it is still a love language w…” “All of us blossom when we feel loved and wither when we do not feel loved.” “People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themse…”