To refuse has so many more consequences than submitting.

“I was not that man: I didn’t hate and fear all women. I was a one-woman misogyn…”

“The Midwest is full of these types of people: the nice-enoughs. Nice enough but…”

“The Days were a clan that mighta lived longBut Ben Day’s head got screwed on wr…”

“I sat in a room the color of egg yolk for two hours while the officer got my st…”