People who are "in love" lose interest in other pursuits. That is why we call it "obsession. Autore: Gary Chapman Copy Quote More from Gary Chapman “We are relational creatures. All humans live in community and most people seek …” “Anger held inside becomes hate.” “All of us blossom when we feel loved and wither when we do not feel loved.” “Don't be a victim of the urgent. In the long run, much of what seems so pressin…”