I wanted to kill the me underneath. That fact haunted my days and nights. When you realize you hate yourself so much, when you realize that you cannot stand who you are, and this deep spite has been the motivation behind your behavior for many years, your brain can’t quite deal with it. It will try very hard to avoid that realization; it will try, in a last-ditch effort to keep your remaining parts alive, to remake the rest of you. This is, I believe, different from the suicidal wish of those who are in so much pain that death feels like relief, different from the suicide I would later attempt, trying to escape that pain. This is a wish to murder yourself; the connotation of kill is too mild. This is a belief that you deserve slow torture, violent death.
Marya HornbacherTag: anorexia self-hatred
The mind thinks thoughts that we don't plan. It's not as if we say, 'At 9:10 I'm going to be filled with self-hatred.
Sharon SalzbergTag: inspirational psychology self-help self-hatred
If you had a person in your life treating you the way you treat yourself, you would have gotten rid of them a long time ago...
Cheri HuberTag: self-hatred self-loathing self-hate
He leaned down and whispered to me: No matter how thin you get, no matter how short you cut your hair, it's still going to be you underneath. And he let go of my arm and walked back down the hall.
Marya HornbacherTag: anorexia self-hatred
The attempt to force human beings to despise themselves is what I call hell.
André MalrauxTag: self-esteem advertising self-hatred marketing diet-industry fashion-industry
Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.
Shannon L. AlderTag: pain self-esteem retaliation revenge change heart sorrow jealousy self-worth self-help anger self-hatred games cruelty depression resentment envy spiritual-growth unkindness damage caring-too-much dismissing hurting-others ignoring not-caring rejecting seeking-revenge self-abuse vengance
When you stop living your life based on what others think of you real life begins. At that moment, you will finally see the door of self acceptance opened.
Shannon L. AlderTag: fear goals empowerment self-acceptance integrity confidence motivation attitude self-hatred powerful self-love insecurity accomplishments true-self self-abuse authentic-self
People say to the mentally ill, ‘You know so many people think the world of you.’ But when they don’t like themselves they don’t notice anything. They don’t care about what people think of them. When you hate yourself, whatever people say it doesn’t make sense. ‘Why do they like me? Why do they care about me?’ Because you don’t care about yourself at all.
Richey EdwardsTag: self-hatred mental-illness
There is a noticeable element of the pathological in some current leftist critiques, which I tend to attribute to feelings of guilt allied to feelings of impotence. Not an attractive combination, because it results in self-hatred.
Christopher HitchensTag: psychology guilt self-hatred iraq-war war-on-terror impotence leftism pathology antiwar-movement
The mistake ninety-nine percent of humanity made, as far as Fats could see, was being ashamed of what they were; lying about it, trying to be somebody else.
J.K. RowlingTag: inspirational self-acceptance humanity shame lying self-hatred hiding being-someone-else being-someone-else-you-are-not hating-yourself trying-to-be-like-someone-else
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