Choose being kind over being right and you'll be right every time.
Richard CarlsonReading is a gift. It's something you can do almost anytime and anywhere. It can be a tremendous way to learn, relax, and even escape. So, enough about the virtues of reading. Time to read on.
Richard CarlsonStichwörter: reading
as you begin to eliminate your need for perfection in all areas of your life, you'll begin to discover the perfection in life itself
Richard Carlsonslowing down your responses and becoming a better listeners aids you in becoming a more peaceful person
Richard CarlsonIronically, when you surrender your need to hog the glory, the attention you used to need from other people is replaced by a quiet inner confidence that is derived from letting others have it.
Richard Carlsonwe tend to focus on the annoying expectation
Richard Carlsonmistakes are really not that big of a deal. in fact , as most of us acknowledge we need to make mistakes in order to learn and grow
Richard Carlsonwe need to break the habit of overreacting because of our speedy assumption and judgments
Richard Carlsonits helpful to step back and see the bigger picture
Richard CarlsonAs our appreciation of happiness in relationship increases, we take notice of the things that tend to take us away from this feeling. One major catalyst taking us away is the need to be right. An opinion that is taken too seriously sets up conditions that must be met first before you can be happy. In relationships, this might sound like 'You must agree with or see my point of view in order for me to love and respect you.' In a more positive feeling state, this attitude would seem silly or harmful. We can disagree, even on important issues, and still love one another - when our own thought systems no longer have control over our lives and we see the innocence in our divergent points of view.
The need to be right stems from an unhealthy relationship to your own thoughts. Do you believe your thoughts are representative of reality and need to be defended, or do you realize that realities are seen through different eyes? Your answer to this question will determine, to a large extent, your ability to remain in a positive feeling state.
Everyone I know, who has put positive feeling above being right on their priority list has come to see that differences of opinion will take care of themselves.
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