Children who are victimized through sexual abuse often begin to develop deeply held tenets that shape their sense of self: 'My worth is my sexuality. I'm dirty and shameful. I have no right to my own physical boundaries.' That shapes their ideas about the world around them: 'No one will believe me. Telling the truth results in bad consequences. People can't be trusted.' It doesn't take long for children to being to act in accordance with these belief systems.
For girls who have experienced incest, sexual abuse, or rape, the boundaries between love, sex, and pain become blurred. Secrets are normal, and shame is a constant.

Rachel Lloyd

Stichwörter: sexuality pain love children sex shame secrets rape beliefs victims sexual-abuse incest



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If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they're bad people.

Tucker Max

Stichwörter: shame judging happyness



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[W]hen people are ashamed they hold aloof, above all from those nearest to them, and are unreserved with strangers

Anton Chekhov

Stichwörter: shame



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There is no shame in strategic retreat if it lets you remain strong enough to go after the enemy later.

Jane Lindskold

Stichwörter: strength strong shame retreat



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Fool me once, shame on you
fool me twice, shame on me
fool me thrice, I'm gonna get the frying pan!

Anthony Liccione

Stichwörter: humor shame fooling frying-pan



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Loss of social standing is an ever-present threat for individuals whose social acceptance is based on behavioral traits rather than unconditional human value.

Melissa V. Harris-Perry

Stichwörter: shame forgiveness humanism dysfunctional-organizations



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It is also a warning. It is a warning that, if nobody reads the writing on the wall, man will be reduced to the state of the beast, whom he is shaming by his manners.

Mahatma Gandhi

Stichwörter: shame good-manners warnings miss-manners beast beasts the-beast adam-gottbetter writing-on-the-wall



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We are all ashamed in one way or another. Who among us is not stained by the past?

Jenna Blum

Stichwörter: shame



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Do not be ashamed of help.

Marcus Aurelius

Stichwörter: shame fellowship help supportiveness



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J_Doe032692 wrote: I am not a thin person. However this does not give people the right to taunt me, calling me ugly and worthless, telling me to kill myself because no one will ever want me, or to make up songs about why I am so fat and how much food I eat. NO ONE, I repeat, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT ANOTHER HUMAN BEING THIS BADLY.

My throat constricts. The neck brace feels as if it's shrinking and cutting off my esophagus. I reach up and cover the words with my hand and the web site dissolves.
I want to go.
Now.

Julie Anne Peters

Stichwörter: shame suicide bullying weight fat attractive thin shaming



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