Problems are not the problem: coping is the problem. Author: Virginia Satir Copy Quote More from Virginia Satir “I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you …” “We need 4 hugs a day for survival.We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.We need …” “Over the years I have developed a picture of what a human being living humanely…” “I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything tha…”