Problems are not the problem: coping is the problem. Author: Virginia Satir Copy Quote More from Virginia Satir “Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is. The way you cope w…” “We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.” “Over the years I have developed a picture of what a human being living humanely…” “I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything tha…”