Problems are not the problem: coping is the problem. Auteur: Virginia Satir Copy Quote More from Virginia Satir “The Problem is never the problem! It is only a symptom of something much deeper.” “Life is not what it's supposed to be.It's what it is.The way you cope with it i…” “We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.” “Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is. The way you cope w…”