Моите родители имаха огромното и изключително умерено удоволствие да живеят скромно и свито, разумно и неинтересно, безцеремонно отхвърляйки мисълта, че трябва да се потърси някакъв по-значим, освен самото живеене, смисъл в проклетия им и лайнян живот. И двамата твърдяха, че живеят заради децата си. Децата са смисълът на живота им. Това ме побъркваше, защото си казвах: „Значи смисълът и на моя живот трябва да е в децата ми. И на моите деца да е в децата им. И на децата на моите деца да е в децата им и така... Няма ли някой да се пробва и да престане да прехвърля топката? Да си намери свой собствен смисъл в своя тъп живот, без да натоварва децата си?”, казвах си. Ами аз пък не исках да съм смисъл на живота им!
Калин ТерзийскиTags: meaning-of-life children
Tradition in the nursery has acted as a severe editor.
Walter JerroldTags: children
Parents drinking is the reason you came into the world, and if we didn't keep doing it then, by God, it would be the reason you went back out of it.
Caitlin MoranTags: children drinking parenting alcohol conception
It's only adults who read the top layers most of the time. I think children read the internal meanings of everything.
Maurice SendakTags: intelligence children meaning adults maurice-sendak
I’m just happy to have experienced life; to have had a beautiful son and to have loved.
Aaron B. PowellTags: life experience love beauty children death child dead happy boy kids beautiful loving the-end post-apocalypse son post-apocalyptic kid experiences loved end-times experienced live-lived
A parent who cannot provide the basic needs of two children, must not even bear one.
M.F. MoonzajerThen I probably fainted. The woman at the registration desk managed to put on a sympathetic expression afterward, as if she wanted to ask, "What are you going to do now?" I told her not to worry, I was really leaving, I was going home.
But go home where? Without my children I no longer had a home.
They had laid the tender, down-ruffled little bird on a platter and appeared now to be pondering a way to eat out its heart without causing it distress.
Yukio MishimaYour children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
...The life of the parents is the only thing that makes good children. Parents should be very patient and ‘saintlike’ to their children. They should truly love their children. And the children will share this love! For the bad attitude of the children, says father Porphyrios, the ones who are usually responsible for it are their parents themselves. The parents don’t help their children by lecturing them and repeating to them ‘advices’, or by making them obeying strict rules in order to impose discipline. If the parents do not become ‘saints’ and truly love their children and if they don’t struggle for it, then they make a huge mistake. With their wrong and/or negative attitude the parents convey to their children their negative feelings. Then their children become reactive and insecure not only to their home, but to the society as well...
Elder PorphyriosTags: friendship love devil parents society children christianity death hope hell saints spirituality christian parenting christ orthodoxy patient
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