When I deny the seriousness of my abuse I agree with my abuser and those who wouldn't acknowledge it. When I am in denial, I have the tendency to minimize my abuse, believe the lies others have said, as well as deny it ever happened. It is important for me to remember as much detail as I can so I can trust my own perceptions of what really happened and not depend on the validations from others.
Patty HiteTags: perception trust denial healing recovery child-abuse deny survivor abuse abuse-survivor minimise
On top of the abuse and neglect, denial heaps more hurt upon the child by requiring the child to alienate herself from reality and her own experience. In troubled families, abuse and neglect are permitted; it's the talking about them that is forbidden.
Marcia SirotaTags: reality secret denial parenting alienation hidden pretend child-abuse neglect forbidden deny abuse incest family-secrets childhood-abuse
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