Beware of extroverts in retreat center clothing!
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
...it is impossible to fully and fairly understand introversion without looking inside. We aren’t just going away, we’re going toward something.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
His retreat into himself is not a final renunciation of the world, but a search for quietude, where alone it is possible for him to make his contribution to the life of the community.
C.G. JungTags: introversion
I am rarely bored alone; I am often bored in groups and crowds.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
Regardless of how dead we feel in a crowd, we cling to the uniquely American assumption that associating is good and necessary and solitude is suspect.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
For an introvert, interacting in a group setting does mean missing out. Where there is too much input, the introvert misses his mind, his subjectivity, his freedom, his very potential. The high-stimulus social environment, the “where it’s at on a Friday night,” this apparent “more,” becomes a prison to the introvert. He can’t wait to be free—to get out and away from the noise, the talk, the interference with his inner process.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
It would be wise to be concerned about the introvert who is deprived of solitude. Is she neglecting herself due to depression? Is she falling victim to guilt and self-reproach? Does she feel cut off from pleasure? Does she feel dead?
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
Although most introverts seek time alone as an alternative to people and competition, solitude is a power source for the introvert. And for someone wanting to exert control, solitude is indeed threatening. Many sales schemes rely on “today only” impulse purchases because “sleeping on it” will help you realize that you don’t need the product. Cults gain their power by depriving members of any time alone. Clients in my office comment on what a difference it makes to have time to think, and value psychotherapy for its attention to inner processes.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
One of the teens I worked with told me about how she loves to take tests, because it is quiet and everyone is occupying their own space.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
Is it better to part with your introversion or to accept a diagnosis that allows you to have it as long as you see it as a problem? The introverted child’s plea for solitude seems to be either unheeded or treated.
Laurie A. HelgoeTags: introversion
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