...The life of the parents is the only thing that makes good children. Parents should be very patient and ‘saintlike’ to their children. They should truly love their children. And the children will share this love! For the bad attitude of the children, says father Porphyrios, the ones who are usually responsible for it are their parents themselves. The parents don’t help their children by lecturing them and repeating to them ‘advices’, or by making them obeying strict rules in order to impose discipline. If the parents do not become ‘saints’ and truly love their children and if they don’t struggle for it, then they make a huge mistake. With their wrong and/or negative attitude the parents convey to their children their negative feelings. Then their children become reactive and insecure not only to their home, but to the society as well...
Elder PorphyriosTags: friendship love devil parents society children christianity death hope hell saints spirituality christian parenting christ orthodoxy patient
The asylum, and later the national health service, warehoused thousands of patients made mad by the intrusions of a sexual predator. But these institutions had been dominated by the discredited Freudian fantasy that sexual abuse doesn’t happen - that it is our illicit desires that drive us crazy. A century ago, Freud recoiled from his own theory of the sexual seduction of children and projected the problem back into the patient. He claimed in his Aetiology of Hysteria that clients, typically women, were describing their fantasies, not facts, not ‘real events’. P3
Beatrix CampbellTags: fantasy health crazy rape facts freud events real hysteria child-abuse sexual-abuse projection patient asylum national-health-service pedophile discredited
LOVE is made up of a strong affection and patience whiles LUST is made up of a strong affection and impatience. Affection is common to them, but patience is not common.
Israelmore AyivorTags: love patience lust affection relationship loving uncommon impatience common i-love-you impatient patient fall-in-love lusting love-and-lust good-relationship affectionate strong-feeling
Patience is produced in the midst of storms; it blossoms under the intense pressures of the storms.
E'yen A. GardnerTags: patience adversity trials storms patient
Dr. Talbon was struck by another very important thing. It all hung together. The stories Cheryl told — even though it was upsetting to think people could do stuff like that — they were not disjointed They were not repetitive in terms of "I've heard this before". It was not just she'd someone trying consciously or unconsciously to get attention. really processed them out and was done with them. She didn't come up with them again [after telling the story once and dealing with it]. Once it was done, it was done. And I think that was probably the biggest factor for me in her believability. I got no sense that she was using these stories to make herself a really interesting person to me so I'd really want to work with her, or something. Or that she was just living in this stuff like it was her life. Once she dealt with it and processed it, it was gone. We just went on to other things. 'Throughout the whole thing, emotionally Cheryl was getting her life together. Parts of her were integrating where she could say,"I have a sense that some particular alter has folded in with some basic alter", and she didn't bring it up again. She didn't say that this alter has reappeared to cause more problems. That just didn't happen. The therapist had learned from training and experience that when real integration occurs, it is permanent and the patient moves on.
Cheryl HershaTags: power psychology government military control paranoia victim disbelief attention mental-health therapy integration soldier training dissociation mental-illness spy accountability pilot trauma survivor incest assassin mind-control dissociative-identity-disorder multiple-personality-disorder split-personality psychologist patient therapist alter helicopter mkultra dissociative extreme-abuse alter-personality super-soldier attention-seeking psychological-problems
As good surgical doctor works on a patient in the theater with varied kinds of surgical instruments, so a true leader also needs a clean bag of leadership characters that vary from task to task. One-way leaders are obvious failures!
Israelmore AyivorTags: theater good character failure leadership theatre food-for-thought leader lead surgery doctor leaders sick hospital leading patient old-ways instruments surgeon one-way israelmore-ayivor self-leaders self-leadership self-leader a-bag a-good-surgical-doctor bag doctor-of-surgery orderlies self-leadership-character surgical surgical-doctor vary
There's no clear water from a muddy well. All you can do is let the silt settle until the water clears otherwise it will taste sour. (paraphrased)
Patrick RothfussTags: pause wisdom time patience calm wise-words calming break settle clear patient recess
He was a patient with a diagnosis that he couldn't understand.
Maggie StiefvaterThe purported insight achieved by the patient is not the product of a process of veridical self-discovery, but rather reflects the patient’s conversion to the therapist’s interpretation.
Adolf GrünbaumTags: self-discovery insight freud psychoanalysis therapy sigmund-freud patient
Sometimes we mistake patience for weakness, but the patient person often realizes that it's much more important for another person to discover his or her own gifts and shortcomings--the patient person doesn't feel a need to "fix" other people, and sometimes will let certain things slide until the other person recognizes the problems. Patient parents often let their kids make the same mistake two or three times because they know that a lesson learned oneself is almost always preferable to a lesson given to us by an authority figure like a parent.
Tom WalshTags: parents patience weakness control letting-go patient
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