I don't tell you this story today in order to encourage all of you in the class of '04 to find careers in the music business, but rather to suggest what the next decade of your lives is likely to be about, and that is, trying to ensure that you don't wake up at 32 or 35 or 40 tenured to a life that happened to you when you weren't paying strict attention, either because the money was good, or it made your parents proud, or because you were unlucky enough to discover an aptitude for the very thing that bores you to tears, or for any of the other semi-valid reasons people marshal to justify allowing the true passion of their lives to leak away. If you're lucky, you may have more than one chance to get things right, but second and third chances, like second and third marriages, can be dicey propositions, and they don't come with guarantees.... The question then is this: How does a person keep from living the wrong life?
Richard RussoTags: life education passion work calling meaning chances tenure
Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order.
Anne Wilson SchaefTags: work perfectionism
I often think about dogs when I think about work and retirement. There are many breeds of dog that just need to be working, and useful, or have a job of some kind, in order to be happy. Otherwise they are neurotically barking, scratching, or tearing up the sofa. A working dog needs to work. And I am a working dog.
Martha SherrillTags: work retirement work-ethic
There is no happily-ever-after to run to. We have to work for happiness.
Mary BaloghNo other technique for the conduct of life attaches the individual so firmly to reality as laying emphasis on work; for his work at least gives him a secure place in a portion of reality, in the human community. The possibility it offers of displacing a large amount of libidinal components, whether narcissistic, aggressive or even erotic, on to professional work and on to the human relations connected with it lends it a value by no means second to what it enjoys as something indispensible to the preservation and justification of existence in society. Professional activity is a source of special satisfaction if it is a freely chosen one — if, that is to say, by means of sublimation, it makes possible the use of existing inclinations, of persisting or constitutionally reinforced instinctual impulses. And yet, as a path to happiness, work is not highly prized by men. They do not strive after it as they do after other possibilities of satisfaction. The great majority of people only work under the stress of necessity, and this natural human aversion to work raises most difficult social problems.
Sigmund Freud...treasure what it means to do a day's work. It's our one and only chance to do something productive today, and it's certainly not available to someone merely because he is the high bidder. A day's work is your chance to do art, to create a gift, to do something that matters. As your work gets better and your art becomes more important, competition for your gifts will increase and you'll discover that you can be choosier about whom you give them to.
Seth GodinTags: work business employment
Sadly, in our technological, impersonal, and avaricious consumer society, people merely hold on to jobs. They put in their time, leave at the five o'clock bell, pick up their pay checks, and leave the whole business behind them. Work, for so many, becomes a necessary evil. They go at it grudgingly, at best resignedly. It is hard to fault them; the stressful conditions and uncertainty under which so many workers labor force them into an adversarial relationship with their occupations and employers.
Robert DykstraTags: work
Work is a blessing when it helps us to think about what we are doing; but it becomes a curse when its sole use is to stop us thinking about the meaning of life.
Paulo CoelhoПоложение человека, живущего в чужой семье в качестве ли учителя, секретаря, компаньона, приживальщика, в большей части случаев стеснительное, зависимое от нанимателя и кормильца. "Я тружусь, следовательно, независим, сам себя знаю и ни пред кем не хочу гнуть спины" - такая истина редко имеет смысл в наших обществах. Протекцию, деньги, поклоны, пронырство, наушничество и тому подобные качества надобно иметь для того, чтобы добиться права на труд; а у нас хозяин почти всегда ломается над наёмщиком, купец над приказчиком, начальник над подчинённым, священник над дьячком; во всех сферах русского труда, который вам лично деньги приносит, подчинённый является нищим, получающим содержание от благодетеля-хозяина. Их этих экономических чисто русских, кровных начал наших вытекает принцип национальной независимости: "Ничего не делаю, значит - я свободен; нанимаю, значит - я независим"; тот же принцип, иначе выраженный: "Я много тружусь, следовательно, раб я; нанимаюсь, следовательно, чужой хлеб ем". Не труд нас кормит - начальство и место кормит; дающий работу - благодетель, работающий - благодетельствуемый; наши начальники - кормильцы. У нас само слово "работа" происходит от слова "раб"... Вот отсюда-то для многих очень естественно и законно вытекает презрение к труду как признаку зависимости и любовь к праздности как имеющей авторитет свободы и человеческого достоинства.
- Н.Г. Помяловский "Мещанское счастье
What did you work at?” Colum asked, shifting a bit on the bench to look more directly at me.
“I was in service,” I said quietly, more quietly than I intended. I wondered if maybe the answer had gotten lost in the rumble of the engines. It didn’t.
“Honest work,” Colum said. I knew that that was what people say about work they consider beneath them. Hauling and scrubbing and digging are “honest work.” Grubbing and mucking? “Honest work.” Tell someone you’re a doctor or a mill owner, and they never say “honest work.
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