Csak érzelmileg túlfűtött emberek tudnak jéghidegen viselkedni. A jég egy érzelmi állapot csúcspontját jellemzi, amikor az hidegbe vagy merevségbe csap át. Valószínűleg valamennyien tapasztaltuk már, hogy hirtelen dühbe gurulunk. Egy ponton azonban már semmit sem érzünk, az érzelem alábbhagy. Jéggé dermedünk dühünkben. A heves érzelmi kitörés helyett belekövülünk haragunkba, a hirtelen csapásba vagy másfajta alapvető reakcióba.
Marie-Louise von FranzNincs értelme annak, hogy nyíltan harcoljunk a másik emóciói ellen. Ha le akarunk beszélni valakit a haragjáról, akkor csak még jobban felbőszítjük. De ha elkapjuk a mögötte megbújó titkos „szívet”, az alapmotívumot, amit az érintett többnyire maga sem ismer, akkor eljuthatunk valahová. Saját magunkkal is ugyanez a helyzet. Ha túlságosan emocionálisan reagálunk valamire, akkor rendszerint ez azért történik, mert a tudattalan vitalitás és energia nem abba az irányba és arra a helyre áramlik, ahová tartozna.
Éppen ezért nagyon kellemetlen ügyfelek az olyan kreatív tehetséggel megáldott emberek, akik alkotókészségüket nem élik ki. Bolhából is elefántot csinálnak, haszontalan dolgok miatt idegesítik fel magukat, túlságosan beleszerelmesednek valakibe, aki nem méltó akkora figyelemre stb. Szabad energia van bennük, ami nem kötődik megfelelő tárgyhoz, és ezért hajlamosak rá, hogy a hamis helyzetbe túlzott lendületet vigyenek. Megkérdezhetjük tőlük, miért túloznak ennyire, miért olyan fontos ez, de a túlhangsúlyozás nem tudatosul bennük. Abban a pillanatban, amikor az ilyen ember valóban fontos dolognak szenteli magát, az egész energiatöbblet helyes irányba indul, és nem fúj fel olyasmit, ami nem méltó ekkora emocionális figyelemre.
A human being in a neurotic state might very well be compared to a bewitched person, for people caught in a neurosis are apt to behave in a manner uncongenial and destructive towards themselves as well as others.
Marie-Louise von FranzDepressions and melancholy are often a cover for tremendous greed.
At the beginning of an analysis there is often a depressed state of resignation-life has no meaning, there is no feeling of being in life. An exaggerated state can develop into complete lameness. Quite young people give the impression of having the resignation of a bitter old man or woman. When you dig into such a black mood you find that behind it there is overwhelming greed-for being loved, for being very rich, for having the right partner, for being the top dog, etc.
Behind such a melancholic resignation you will often discover in the darkness a recurring theme which makes things very difficult, namely if you give such people one bit of hope, the lion opens its mouth and you have to withdraw, and then they put the lid on again, and so it goes on, back and forth.
If you think the anima as being "nothing but" what you know about her, you have not the receptiveness of a listening attitude, and so she becomes "nothing but" a load of brutal emotions; you have never given her a chance of expressing herself, and therefore she has become inhuman and brutal.
Marie-Louise von FranzOne has to consider what effect it would have on one to have to accept the fact that God was not the friendly guardian of kindergarten!
Marie-Louise von FranzMots clés god-depth-psychology
It is a fact that if an impulse from one or the other sphere comes up and is not lived out, then it goes back down and tends to develop anti-human qualities. What should have been a human impulse becomes a tiger-like impulse.
For instance, a man has a feeling impulse to say something positive to someone and he blocks it off through some inhibition. He might then dream that he had a spontaneous feeling impulse on the level of a child and his conscious purpose had smashed it. The human is still there, but as a hurt child. Should he do that habitually for five years, he would no longer dream of a child who had been hurt but of a zoo full of raging wild animals in a cage.
An impulse which is driven back loads up with energy and becomes inhuman. This fact, according to Dr. Jung, demonstrates the independent existence of unconscious.
Mots clés dreaming jung impulse unconscious-depth-psychology
When not used as an instrument, the intellect becomes autonomous and dynamic and one can be sure that a man with such attitude is driven by his anima, otherwise he would discuss in a quiet, detached way.
Marie-Louise von FranzIf you observe a content which then disappears for a short time into the unconscious, it is not altered when it comes up again, but if you forget something for a long time, it does not return in the same form; it autonomously evolves or regresses in the other sphere, and therefore one can speak of unconscious as being a sphere, or entity in itself.
Marie-Louise von FranzMots clés unconscious-depth-psychology
We always tend to keep within ourselves threshold reactions such as a little doubt, or a little impulse not to do something. If the impulses are not very strong we are inclined to put them aside in a one-sided way and by this we have hurt an animal or a spirit within us.
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