Problems are not the problem: coping is the problem. Auteur: Virginia Satir Copy Quote More from Virginia Satir “Over the years I have developed a picture of what a human being living humanely…” “We need 4 hugs a day for survival.We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.We need …” “So much is asked of parents, and so little is given.” “I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything tha…”