It’s better to be a “misfit” than a “one-size-fits-all”!
Mandy HaleMots clés fitting-in conformity positive-thinking being-yourself loving-yourself standing-out not-fitting-in misfit
So you're a little weird? Work it! A little different? OWN it! Better to be a nerd than one of the herd!
Mandy HaleMots clés unique fitting-in conformity different weird nerd uniqueness weirdness being-yourself being-different loving-yourself standing-out not-fitting-in herd accepting-yourself
You’ll learn, as you get older, that rules are made to be broken. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. Dance as though EVERYBODY is watching. March to the beat of your own drummer. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.
Mandy HaleMots clés happiness laughter dance dancing fitting-in authenticity adversity rules life-lessons chances boldness uniqueness lessons non-conformity finding-yourself positive-thinking road-less-traveled taking-chances getting-older lessons-learned being-yourself breaking-the-rules loving-yourself overcoming-adversity standing-out journey-of-life the-single-woman go-against-the-grain living-life-on-your-own-terms
Like a lot of people with mental illness, I spend a lot of time fronting. It’s really important to me to not appear crazy, to fit in, to seem normal, to do the things “normal people” do, to blend in.
As a defense mechanism, fronting makes a lot of sense, and you hone that mechanism after years of being crazy. Fronting is what allows you to hold down a job and maintain relationships with people, it’s the thing that sometimes keeps you from falling apart. It’s the thing that allows you to have a burst of tears in the shower or behind the front seat of your car and then coolly collect yourself and stroll into a social engagement…
We are rewarded for hiding ourselves. We become the poster children for “productive” mentally ill people, because we are so organized and together. The fact that we can function, at great cost to ourselves, is used to beat up the people who cannot function.
Because unlike the people who cannot front, or who fronted too hard and fell off the cliff, we are able to “keep it together,” whatever it takes.
Mots clés fitting-in crazy mental-illness defense-mechanism stigma emotional-pain hiding-feelings faking-normal faking-well keeping-it-together mental-illness-stigma pretending-to-be-ok psychological-defense putting-on-a-brave-face
Beauty is the replication and duplication of mind’s delusion. It is not uniqueness or exceptionality; it is the mentality of belonging and fitting in.
M.F. MoonzajerMots clés beauty fitting-in delusion belonging uniqueness mentality duplication exceptionality replication
Never laugh at the man that asks 'stupid' questions. Just remember, when all of society thought the world was flat, a man once questioned, "What if the world was round?
Jeremy SmithMots clés inspirational truth philosophy fitting-in
Life is like butter - when things cool down it can be reshaped
Alan SheinwaldMots clés fear wisdom life inspirational art perception pessimism strength experience reality freedom peace belief integrity confidence romance sadness fate planning plans faith be-yourself fitting-in those-who-matter accomplishment relationships human-nature light live funny mistakes strategy smile smiling action actions attributed best alan-sheinwald magination
Exactly. We don't belong here. They're not staring out of disdain, Jordan; they're staring out of jealousy. We don't have to be a part of the horrible modelling industry. You don't have to watch what you eat and I don't have to worry about how many zits are on my face. We can be whoever the fuck we want, a type of liberty that a majority of people crave.
Cameron How to be a GirlMots clés liberty fitting-in being-yourself
People who fit don’t seek. The seekers are those that don’t fit.
Shannon L. AlderMots clés life truth happiness acceptance philosophy peace god religion faith joy church fitting-in believe prayer answers unhappiness seeking finding-yourself searching pastors god-s-plan searching-for-truth fitting findig-something-to-believe
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