Many partners of addicts have told me they feel bad about themselves for staying in the relationship because of the betrayal they’ve experienced. They imagine that the people who know their past judge them to be stupid for staying with the person who’s caused them so much pain. I often counter this thinking, explaining that leaving may seem quick and easy because they can pretend they’re okay and the problem has disappeared. However, if you leave your relationship, you’ll be stuck with your pain and sorrow without the person you loved to help you sort it out. Why is this true? Because even though it feels as if your pain comes from your partner, it’s actually coming from inside you.
Alexandra KatehakisMots clés pain sorrow betrayal relationship infidelity partner addict
Sake
The jewel which brightly shines at night
Is precious, but cannot measure up
To the delights of drinking sake,
Drowning one's troubles in the cup.
Otomo no Tabito
Now I lay facedown on the bed, sobbing for the woman
who once slept here not knowing that someday one of her
worst fears would come true
If you know someone who tries to drown their sorrows, you might tell them sorrows know how to swim.
H. Jackson Brown Jr.When I look out on such a night as this, I feel as if there could be neither wickedness nor sorrow in the world; and there certainly would be less of both if the sublimity of Nature were more attended to, and people were carried more out of themselves by contemplating such a scene.
Jane AustenMots clés nature sorrow night wickedness contemplation sublime
When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to see all the doors God has open in front of you.
Shannon L. AlderMots clés goals future love plans faith sorrow hope moving-on choices endings doors regret beginnings letting-go goodbyes giving-up god-s-plan
A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.
Shannon L. AlderMots clés friendship pain love acceptance family sorrow child hurt adversity cruelty illness endings support trials caring rejection mom tough-times dad breakups mental-disorders best-friend spouse dumped misunderstood-fights support-system true-friendship
Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.
Rumi (Jalal ad-Din Muhammad ar-Rumi)Mots clés sorrow joy transformation rumi
Visitors offering their condolences, thinking to comfort me, said "Life goes on." What nonsense, I thought, of course it doesn't. It's death that goes on; Ian is dead now and will be dead tomorrow and next year and forever. There's no end to that. But perhaps there will be an end to the sorrow of it.
Mary Ann ShafferHere is a commandment for you: seek happiness in sorrow. Work, work tirelessly.
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