Problems are not the problem: coping is the problem. Autore: Virginia Satir Copy Quote More from Virginia Satir “Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differenc…” “We need 4 hugs a day for survival.We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.We need …” “Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is. The way you cope w…” “We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.”