Self-hate is rarely unconditional.

“I think we all build superstructures in our heads, catwalks and trestles that l…”

“Maybe I could have done fifty things to avoid the accident. Left the car in the…”

“I have come to love you in spite of---" Do I want to be loved in spite of?...Do…”

“Judgment helps one to make the appropriate decision at the appropriate moment a…”