His rules were thus: One, resist when beneficial to the cause. Two, dignity before humiliation. Three, don’t show true emotions.
Courtney KirchoffTag: emotions rules control rebellion resistance
Fear is an emotion you control, not the other way around. We control fear when we let it go.
Elliot KayTag: fear emotions emotion control letting-go fears let-it-go let-go
Fear sells better than sex and the iPhone 5 combined.
Greg PalastA real man can use power, rather than let power use him
Moffat MachinguraTag: power man men control influence care real-man
I would control your life, every step you walk, and every word you say; there is no way you can run from an injured wolf.
M.F. MoonzajerTag: life control wolf injured
SELFHOOD AND DISSOCIATION
The patient with DID or dissociative disorder not otherwise specified (DDNOS) has used their capacity to psychologically remove themselves from repetitive and inescapable traumas in order to survive that which could easily lead to suicide or psychosis, and in order to eke some growth in what is an unsafe, frequently contradictory and emotionally barren environment.
For a child dependent on a caregiver who also abuses her, the only way to maintain the attachment is to block information about the abuse from the mental mechanisms that control attachment and attachment behaviour.10 Thus, childhood abuse is more likely to be forgotten or otherwise made inaccessible if the abuse is perpetuated by a parent or other trusted caregiver.
In the dissociative individual, ‘there is no uniting self which can remember to forget’. Rather than use repression to avoid traumatizing memories, he/she resorts to alterations in the self ‘as a central and coherent organization of experience. . . DID involves not just an alteration in content but, crucially, a change in the very structure of consciousness and the self’ (p. 187).29 There may be multiple representations of the self and of others.
Middleton, Warwick. "Owning the past, claiming the present: perspectives on the treatment of dissociative patients." Australasian Psychiatry 13.1 (2005): 40-49.
Tag: identity psychology suicide control personality attachment psychiatry dissociation psychological child-abuse abuse dissociative-identity-disorder mpd ddnos traumas
Children who are not encouraged to do, to try, to explore, to master, and to risk failure, often feel helpless and inadequate. Over-controlled by anxious, fearful parents, these children often become anxious and fearful themselves. This makes it difficult for them to mature. Many never outgrow the need for ongoing parental guidance and control. As a result, their parents continue to invade, manipulate, and frequently dominate their lives.
Susan ForwardTag: family parents children manipulation failure control helplessness mental-health boundaries controlled toxic anxious fearful ris toxic-parents
The world you once knew is no more for you.
Travis LuedkeTag: acceptance change control domination vampire nightlife submission
When we oppose oppression, we lift our hands from the collective reins that empower such oppression.
Bryant McGillTag: suffering oppression control misery
I question the more or less psychoanalytic perspective that the male need to control women sexually results from some primal male "fear of women" and of women's sexual insatiability. It seems more probable that men really fear, not that they will have women's sexual appetites forced on them, or that women want to smother and devour them, but that women could be indifferent to them altogether, that men could be allowed sexual and emotional-therefore economic-access to women only on women's terms, otherwise being left on the periphery of the matrix.
Adrienne RichTag: control patriarchy male-power
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