Audio of interview - Valerie Sinason
Tag: society change law police survivors uk psychotherapist child-abuse victims ritual-abuse sexual-abuse satanism therapist psychoanalyst satanic-ritual-abuse sra paedophile child-sex-abuse society-problem ritualistic-abuse jimmy-savile paedophile-ring pedophiles savile
The healing process is best described as a spiral. Survivors go through the stages once, sometimes many times; sometimes in one order, sometimes in another. Each time they hit a stage again, they move up the spiral: they can integrate new information and a broader range of feelings, utilize more resources, take better care of themselves, and make deeper changes.” Allies in Healing by Laura Davis
Laura HoughTag: feelings healing survivors recovery mental-health child-abuse victims sexual-abuse child-sexual-abuse incest spiral
There are two different kinds of people in the world. There are people who instinctively look for every chance to be a “victim” and those who look for every chance to rise above—regardless of where they are in life and what’s happening around them. There are people who realize their ability to create (greatly influence) reality toward a positive direction for themselves and those around them, and unfortunately those who use this power we all have for destructive purposes for themselves and others—many times without even knowing what they’re doing or the power they have inside themselves. We are all powerful individuals. Let’s use that power to create something beautiful!
Christopher HawkeTag: reality power creation victim powerful create victims rise-above victim-mentality two-kinds-of-people
Mum was pregnant, then there was Sharron. [...]
I wanted to keep him away from her - but for the wrong reasons. In my head he was mine, he was my special person but, of course, as I was getting older, his interest in me was waning anyway. I don't know whether it was because he had lost interest in me, or because the abuse elsewhere was so horrific, particularly without him in my life to make things seem better but, whatever the reason, I soon moved from wanted him to leave Sharron alone for my sake, to wanting him to leave her alone for the right reasons. She was tiny, just a toddler, and the thought of him touching her or abusing her horrified me. I started trying to attract his attention whenever he looked at her. I'd dance, I'd sing, I'd sit on his lap. I'd do a hundred things that were completely out of character - anything, anything to avoid seeing that look in his eye when he glanced at the baby.
I knew that he was planing to do to her what he had done to me. I tried to get in the way, I tried to get him to play with me, but once Sharron was about three, the penny finally dropped. I had always thought he wasn't in the same category as the others; they weren't nice, and he always was. But as she began to replace me, it made me face up to things. What Uncle Andrew did wasn't right. [...]
Even though I loved my uncle, and craved his attention, the thought of him coming into my bed was starting to repulse me. sharron slept in my bed, too, by then, and I wanted that to continue because I wanted to protect her.
Of course, there were plenty of times when I wasn't there. I was still being taken away to be abused. I was at school; Sharon was often left unprotected. Something must have been happening because she started wetting the bed almost every night. This was a sign that even I couldn't turn away from. Sharon was being abused. I was sure of it. But I wouldn't stand for it, not for much longer.
p209-2010
Tag: fear silence secrets denial society-denial survivors child-abuse victims child-sexual-abuse incest paedophile organised-abuse organized-abuse paedophile-ring pedophiles child-sex-ring silencing-children
A quote from A BORN VICTIM:
“Women are beautiful. That's it,” Mike blurted out. “Of course men like to look at them. Why wouldn't we? But to go from that and hurt a woman, to harm her just for pleasure, that's sick, totally sick.” He was breathing hard, fighting down an almost incoherent rage inside. “Women are so beautiful, so delicate, so fragile. How could any normal man get pleasure from causing pain or harm to something as completely wonderful as a woman?”
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Justice fails because victims used to be too kind and criminals too clever.
M.F. MoonzajerTag: justice clever kind victims criminals
Sympathy of victims and humanity of us question the stronghold of integrity towards justice.
M.F. MoonzajerTag: humanity justice integrity sympathy victims stronghold
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